Why everyone can’t be a leader? What is the actual thing to creates a difference between a leader and a fan? It is a game of attitude.
You will be a follower or a leader, it totally depends on the attitude.
But what is the attitude and how to adapt the required attitude to be a leader?
Attitude is all about what you think about yourself. What you consider you are and how you deal with the situations.
Have you ever done a comparison between the attitude of leaders and followers?
If not so let me do it for you.
A leader never wastes opportunities.
He never relies on anyone.
He never thinks what people think about him.
Leaders never think time is short.
They never think about empty pockets.
He does not give excuses and justifications.
They believe in themself.
They are fair.
A leader is always fearless.
They do not care about the results.
Leaders do not run away from their responsibilities.
He never roars before success.
They do not make false statements.
They come into the battle, face the real troubles and thus tell the people why they are leaders and why they deserve to be a leader.
Whereas followers every time busy to following the leaders, doing daydreaming, giving justifications, crying on we can’t, thinking they are not made, to be a champion.
Do you know about Babar Azam?
He is a perfect example to take for being a leader.
A single line from his own interview is enough to define the reason for his success and it is.
I believe in myself and that is the reason I am here(from a ball picker to a world’s number one batsman).
Do you know what is the power of belief?
When you start to believe in yourself then nature will have to believe in you. When nature starts to believe in you, ultimately things have to work for you, and when things start to work for you, then who can stop you from being a leader a champion?
Mark my words…
No one can stop you.
If you want to be a leader if you really want to achieve goals. Then it doesn’t matter for you, the things are working or not because you will force them to work for you by your efforts and your energy.
How to adopt the attitude of a leader
This attitude, this lifestyle is not tough to adapt to, you just have to control your mind, your actions, your lifestyle, and your routine.
If you’re willing to be a leader, then this will should be enough to encourage you. Excitement should be high to push you on the bed on time because you have to go on time. While followers are watching movies and using Netflix and social media. In short, you should have to go to bed with all preparation because you can’t be late, you can’t lose the opportunity, actually, this kind of attitude differentiates a leader from a follower.
The leader’s attitude demands to be silent therefore you have to stop reacting to the people’s comments. You must have enough belief in yourself. You must know why you don’t need to run in the race of the dogs to prove you are better than them. Even it is not necessary to listen to them. In case you have to listen them, use their word as fuel to burn them by your success.
Be fair in each aspect of your life. If you want to achieve something in your life then you have to achieve it from all hearts. On the other hand, when you do not want to achieve or want to do something then you must have enough confidence to say “no”. You must have enough courage to design your life with your own hands. A great leader always designs each step of life by their own will because they are the leader of their life, they have charge of their life and they are adaptive to face any kind of situation.
Take your responsibilities instead of making excuses. Do not rely on motivational quotes, motivational speeches, and videos to get the energy to move forward. Might be you seem you can’t do that or you are afraid of what will be the results. Or don’t want to sacrifice your comfort. So don’t do. Just live life in your way and forget to be a leader because it is not the way of a leader.
Have you ever seen a true leader run from his responsibility and getting energy from any other leader? A true leader never waits for the followers to cheer him. They never ask for appreciation because they know their worth. They do not need any appreciation or buttering words from anyone. Because they know what they are and what they deserve and what they should be.
Last words to adapt attitude of a leader
Be positive and begin to act like a leader. Think, you are the luckiest person on the planet. Each day is your day. You are made to conquer the world. God is with you. Nature is waiting for you. Take your responsibilities. Face the troubles and check out the new version of yourself. I promise you, you will love this version. All the other peoples are enough to be followers but you are not a made-to-be follower. You are a leader. Just you need to follow attitude, polish yourself, have to consistent and let the rest on the god.